<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9588466.post1182401007582206177..comments</id><updated>2008-04-01T00:17:40.219-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on RECRUM: Recovery Ruminations: Divorce Mediation</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://recrum.blogspot.com/feeds/1182401007582206177/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/1182401007582206177/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://recrum.blogspot.com/2007/08/divorce-mediation.html'/><author><name>Phil</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06571263543865506401</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>10</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9588466.post-2635670188292731013</id><published>2008-04-01T00:17:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-04-01T00:17:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>it is nice to walk in straight way</title><content type='html'>it is nice to walk in straight way</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/1182401007582206177/comments/default/2635670188292731013'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/1182401007582206177/comments/default/2635670188292731013'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://recrum.blogspot.com/2007/08/divorce-mediation.html?showComment=1207034220000#c2635670188292731013' title=''/><author><name>free</name><uri>http://last-free-download.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://recrum.blogspot.com/2007/08/divorce-mediation.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9588466.post-1182401007582206177' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/posts/default/1182401007582206177' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9588466.post-6797649539828144699</id><published>2007-08-27T06:22:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2007-08-27T06:22:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>I used to work for a small law firm that did lots ...</title><content type='html'>I used to work for a small law firm that did lots and lots of divorces and divorce mediations.  I doubt that you will find the adversarial process any less frustrating that mediation.  &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;There is light at the end of the tunnel however.  You will get through this.  You will get on the other side of this.  Life will go on.  God is in charege.  &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;It is great to see you posting again.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/1182401007582206177/comments/default/6797649539828144699'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/1182401007582206177/comments/default/6797649539828144699'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://recrum.blogspot.com/2007/08/divorce-mediation.html?showComment=1188220920000#c6797649539828144699' title=''/><author><name>Trudging</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08139170570599049146</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://recrum.blogspot.com/2007/08/divorce-mediation.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9588466.post-1182401007582206177' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/posts/default/1182401007582206177' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9588466.post-4282462507218401450</id><published>2007-08-26T19:11:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2007-08-26T19:11:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Thanks for your blog. My brother admitted himself ...</title><content type='html'>Thanks for your blog. My brother admitted himself to detox yesterday, but walked out today. My family is suffering, but it's helpful to find blogs such as yours to give us hope.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/1182401007582206177/comments/default/4282462507218401450'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/1182401007582206177/comments/default/4282462507218401450'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://recrum.blogspot.com/2007/08/divorce-mediation.html?showComment=1188180660000#c4282462507218401450' title=''/><author><name>Drew's Sis</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00627972444945598832</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://recrum.blogspot.com/2007/08/divorce-mediation.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9588466.post-1182401007582206177' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/posts/default/1182401007582206177' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9588466.post-700467681041366833</id><published>2007-08-21T08:44:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2007-08-21T08:44:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>are you doing better..? sending you good thoughts ...</title><content type='html'>are you doing better..? sending you good thoughts and love</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/1182401007582206177/comments/default/700467681041366833'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/1182401007582206177/comments/default/700467681041366833'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://recrum.blogspot.com/2007/08/divorce-mediation.html?showComment=1187711040000#c700467681041366833' title=''/><author><name>Shannon</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07781628960161310563</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://recrum.blogspot.com/2007/08/divorce-mediation.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9588466.post-1182401007582206177' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/posts/default/1182401007582206177' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9588466.post-1908547151358887695</id><published>2007-08-19T18:38:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2007-08-19T18:38:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>/you and I are wearing the same shoes right now. M...</title><content type='html'>/you and I are wearing the same shoes right now. My wife locked the doors as I was on my way home from treatment, we have spent endless hours with lawyers and now use coaches in four way meetings that are meant to be colabortive.&lt;BR/&gt;Tough thing thouhg, I got honesty in treatment and hse didnt.&lt;BR/&gt;Peace and good wishes,&lt;BR/&gt;Norm F.&lt;BR/&gt;www.onemoretwentyfour.com</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/1182401007582206177/comments/default/1908547151358887695'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/1182401007582206177/comments/default/1908547151358887695'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://recrum.blogspot.com/2007/08/divorce-mediation.html?showComment=1187573880000#c1908547151358887695' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://recrum.blogspot.com/2007/08/divorce-mediation.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9588466.post-1182401007582206177' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/posts/default/1182401007582206177' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9588466.post-3407462334956807902</id><published>2007-08-18T19:10:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2007-08-18T19:10:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Pretty difficult stuff indeed.  I pray for you to ...</title><content type='html'>Pretty difficult stuff indeed.  I pray for you to get through it quickly.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/1182401007582206177/comments/default/3407462334956807902'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/1182401007582206177/comments/default/3407462334956807902'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://recrum.blogspot.com/2007/08/divorce-mediation.html?showComment=1187489400000#c3407462334956807902' title=''/><author><name>Redhead Gal</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05704372680864534271</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://recrum.blogspot.com/2007/08/divorce-mediation.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9588466.post-1182401007582206177' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/posts/default/1182401007582206177' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9588466.post-6952421553361338345</id><published>2007-08-11T03:31:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2007-08-11T03:31:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>It's all part of the TOTAL ENTERTAINMENT PACKAGE.</title><content type='html'>It's all part of the TOTAL ENTERTAINMENT PACKAGE.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/1182401007582206177/comments/default/6952421553361338345'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/1182401007582206177/comments/default/6952421553361338345'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://recrum.blogspot.com/2007/08/divorce-mediation.html?showComment=1186828260000#c6952421553361338345' title=''/><author><name>dAAve</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10378341182741173178</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://recrum.blogspot.com/2007/08/divorce-mediation.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9588466.post-1182401007582206177' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/posts/default/1182401007582206177' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9588466.post-7179016388879453578</id><published>2007-08-10T07:02:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2007-08-10T07:02:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>I too have been there and done that.  Hang in ther...</title><content type='html'>I too have been there and done that.  Hang in there my friend.  &lt;BR/&gt;oxox&lt;BR/&gt;JJ</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/1182401007582206177/comments/default/7179016388879453578'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/1182401007582206177/comments/default/7179016388879453578'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://recrum.blogspot.com/2007/08/divorce-mediation.html?showComment=1186754520000#c7179016388879453578' title=''/><author><name>JJ</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16320055410346200684</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://recrum.blogspot.com/2007/08/divorce-mediation.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9588466.post-1182401007582206177' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/posts/default/1182401007582206177' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9588466.post-2363773323653687132</id><published>2007-08-08T09:53:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2007-08-08T09:53:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Trinker, it is wonderful to hear from you!  You ha...</title><content type='html'>Trinker, it is wonderful to hear from you!  You have been missed, my friend.  Everyone, stop and say hello at &lt;A HREF="http://alcoholicdiary.blogspot.com/" REL="nofollow"&gt;Trinker's blog&lt;/A&gt;.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/1182401007582206177/comments/default/2363773323653687132'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/1182401007582206177/comments/default/2363773323653687132'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://recrum.blogspot.com/2007/08/divorce-mediation.html?showComment=1186591980000#c2363773323653687132' title=''/><author><name>Phil</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06571263543865506401</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01220536018078011348'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://recrum.blogspot.com/2007/08/divorce-mediation.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9588466.post-1182401007582206177' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/posts/default/1182401007582206177' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9588466.post-4534441794166824086</id><published>2007-08-08T09:06:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2007-08-08T09:06:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Been there.  Done that.  It sucks.  Adversarial re...</title><content type='html'>Been there.  Done that.  It sucks.  Adversarial representation will wind up costing you both a lot more.  And &lt;I&gt;still&lt;/I&gt; neither of you will think it's fair, which is probably the best indicator that it &lt;I&gt;is&lt;/I&gt; fair.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/1182401007582206177/comments/default/4534441794166824086'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/1182401007582206177/comments/default/4534441794166824086'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://recrum.blogspot.com/2007/08/divorce-mediation.html?showComment=1186589160000#c4534441794166824086' title=''/><author><name>Namenlosen Trinker</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15233104063859778659</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://recrum.blogspot.com/2007/08/divorce-mediation.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9588466.post-1182401007582206177' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9588466/posts/default/1182401007582206177' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>